Comments on: Breastfeeding……..(i am SO in trouble here)

By: fantacy

fantacy — Tue, 06 Jan 2009 22:06:55 +0000

Ok first off, I am going to do my best to forget almost everything I read in the 2nd half of the post *shudder* I don’t judge the people who do it but I can’t help but judge the act, c’mon, seriously?! All of us has come short of the glory of making it to the bathroom when we are sick and dealing with the flu, I can’t imagine PURPOSEFULLY missing the bathroom and sitting in my own crap or urine….*gag*….waiting for someone *i think i puked in my mouth a lil* to come wipe my … my … *gag…gaining composure* arse…..
However, concerning breastfeeding…
When I was a senior in high school our study hall teacher had a child in kindergarten who would get out of class during our s.h. period and the li’l girl would come down to the room to be with her mom and EVERY day she would crawl right up under her shirt and nurse for most of the hour then take her nap on a lil pallet by her mom’s desk! For me, 5 is a bit old to be nursing your child (esp in front of a bunch of hormone driven teen guys) but I feel like when to wean is kind of between the parent and child. If they are old enough to express verbally, I think it should be done at home or in private (I am pro-public breastfeeding infants! When a baby is hungry they are HUNGRY & can’t wait or even be told why they have to). My brestfeeding experience with my first child was perfect, so much bonding, so much stress relief just sitting there looking at my child contently nurse and knowing that I was providing him something that no one else could…when the teeth came in, he came off .With my 2nd baby, it was a wonderful experience but he was HUGE and I couldn’t keep up with him…so at like 3-4 months we had to switch him to formula but he still pacified at the breast for about 3 more months and there were times that letting him nurse, even though not for nourishment, was the only way to help abade his colic but once again, teeth in, kid off! My 3rd breast feeding experience was HELL, she had a small mouth, couldn’t latch on right, I was stressed and my diabetes was out of whack and she cried non stop because even though I was making ENOUGH milk, there was no nourishment in it so we had to cease at 3 months again but she too pacified on them for almost a year. Now my kids are almost 14 (he would crap if he knew I commented about this), 10, and 4. The younger 2 still have a tendency to want to rest their head on them (NOT in a nursing way, but you can tell they are still very fond of them and that there is something comforting about mother’s breast…not mother’s breast MILK) but there is no way in hell that I would even consider allowing them to nurse now!
The mom in the video SEEMS very well rounded and fairly sane and I think she really does feel that she is doing what is best for the younger daughter…and I think the girls seem very “normal”. I couldn’t do it at those ages but hey more power to her, she seems to be doing it out of love and comfort nothing more.
Wow, I rarely comment and this is why, sorry for the blog post in the comments, I actually just wanted to thank you for not being afraid to post on such a um…uh…”creepy” subject (LOL that was just a jab at your other post…I do not find your blog creepy at all, just a blog that is unafraid to be straight up about what mom’s see, what bothers us, and what is wrong with the world today!) I also want to thank you for being very considerate of even the views of your readers that don’t agree with what you post (even though I feel like they are a lil off in sometimes lol)
OH and as for ANR…um between hubby/wife when wifey is already lactating or whatever, no biggie, but any other ANR just kinda disturbs me…actually anything beyond “what does it taste like…hm” kinda weirds me out but between hub & wife I say it is up to them.

**I tried to send this via “contact us” but it was too long, sorry!**

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By: brett

brett — Tue, 06 Jan 2009 19:53:05 +0000

OK, here’s where I probably shoot myself in the foot for commenting here…

I agree that the whole adult baby/diaper lover thing is probably the weirdest thing you have ever heard of. I would like to dispel some of the myths associated with it:

1. It does not involve children at all.
2. For about half of the people involved, it is non-sexual. Diapers are a way of regressing to a time where things were simple and non-stressful/threatening.

I agree that this is probably bizarre to some, but please dont judge someone off of this.

For a well presented, non-graphical site about this, go to: http://understanding.infantilism.org/

And for the record, your blog came up on a Google search for adult diapers!

Happy new year and peace to all–

Brett

By: Qtpies7

Qtpies7 — Tue, 06 Jan 2009 15:54:25 +0000

LOL That is hysterical! I've known about/heard about this fetish for many years. They even featured it on CSI or some other crime show. But I would NOT dare blog about it! You are brave, sister. You are gonna have some grotesque hits on your blog now, lol. Qtpies7’s last blog post..Question of the Day

By: Sarah @ Ohana Mama

Sarah @ Ohana Mama — Tue, 06 Jan 2009 08:12:54 +0000

Sarah wrote:

Don’t be surprised when you get some really nasty google hits on this post. I wouldn’t even want those people looking at my blog by accident. That is gross! Sarah’s last blog post..Not Me Monday

Ditto. Sarah @ Ohana Mama’s last blog post..New Year's Resolutions: Be Prepared...for a car break down (closed)

By: hair4myprincess

hair4myprincess — Tue, 06 Jan 2009 03:40:31 +0000

I'm speechless!! Really, I don't know what to say about this one. WOW!! LOL hair4myprincess’s last blog post..Candy Stripes

By: Trisha-admin

Trisha-admin — Tue, 06 Jan 2009 03:11:54 +0000

@ janetk:
Janet, thank you for your incite and for leaving a comment.

trisha

By: janetk

janetk — Tue, 06 Jan 2009 02:35:30 +0000

Hi there,

I’ve never been to your blog before and just stumbled onto it while searching for something else, via Google. Excellent writing! You’ve got me hooked already and I might have to start blogging here.

I felt compelled to leave a comment because I am a single mother of three involved in an ANR with my boyfriend. It’s certainly not for everyone but those of us who do it, love it for lots of reasons. It’s not entirely sexual, but sometimes erotic…most of the time, however, it’s nurturing and loving and something discreetly shared between two consenting adults. There is a wonderful website dedicated to ANRs called Land of Milk and Honey. It’s porn-free and offers a of insight into something that even I can appreciate is a little “out there”.

And by the way, adult breastfeeding does NOT always extend to adult babies. The two can be very separate. As is in my case. I’ve changed enough diapers to last me a lifetime.

Take care,

janetk

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By: erin

erin — Tue, 06 Jan 2009 02:08:40 +0000

Sarah wrote:

Don’t be surprised when you get some really nasty google hits on this post. I wouldn’t even want those people looking at my blog by accident.
That is gross!
Sarah’s last blog post..Not Me Monday

I was thinking the same thing.

I think BFing your baby/toddler in public isnormal and not sexual. I dont think BFing should be sexual, because it will then become illegal to do in public. It isnt illegal, right? And I thought BFing was super hard. But I honestly dont produce a lot of milk. So it sucked. I wish I had the BFing relationship with my baby. Not my teenager or husband, though.

By: Trisha-admin

Trisha-admin — Tue, 06 Jan 2009 01:34:52 +0000

Sarah wrote:

Don’t be surprised when you get some really nasty google hits on this post. I wouldn’t even want those people looking at my blog by accident.
That is gross!
Sarah’s last blog post..Not Me Monday

they have actually already started. LOL!!

By: Sarah

Sarah — Tue, 06 Jan 2009 01:29:53 +0000

Don't be surprised when you get some really nasty google hits on this post. I wouldn't even want those people looking at my blog by accident. That is gross! Sarah’s last blog post..Not Me Monday