I met a man on the internet and fell in love with him. I now know how the internet can be used to create feelings of fantasy, not love. If you meet someone on here and think your in love ask yourself this question. How many other people has he or she lied to. I bet there are hundreds who have heard how much they are loved, but are they?
There are individuals who are experts on how to use and abuse people who may be naive, hurt or vunerable.
These people know what they are doing. They have done it so often that it means nothing to them.
I believed one like this and gave up everything to be with him. He lied and cheated and had hundreds of women that he was chatting with and telling them all the same things.
I wondered all along about his mysterious ways. I just wanted to be loved so bad that I didn’t listen to my gut instinct.
When I finally came to my senses, after hurting my family and countless individuals that tried to warn me, I left him.
I drove fifteen hundred miles back home and tried to get over the pain of being used.
I got a different phone number, a lot of good that does, money can buy anything.
He stalked me through Yahoo Messenger until I got rid of it and then proceeded to do it through my mail.
He knew everything about me and used it against me. The names he called me and the accusations he acccused me of, degraded me and made me feel as low as I ever felt in my life.
I was afraid to go out at night, I didn’t talk to close friends because I thought they were feeding him information about me.
I called the Police Department and gave them all the information that I had. At first they didn’t do much and then I got an investigator that proved to all of them that it was him.
I went to counciling trying to regain self worth and feel so that I could live again.
The fear is gone now and is replaced with anger. He still tries under countless identities to take everything away form me that I like.
He believes in a weird way that I still love him, when I have no feelings for him at all.
I can’t love again, I lost trust and have to learn to get it back.

Don’t believe these online charmers, it will get you in the end.
Check them out and trust your gut instinct. It’s usually right.

Here is a link to the fan page set up at Facebook to document his harassment http://www.facebook.com/photos.php?id=118819478157047#!/pages/Murt-and-Murtwitnessone-and-MurtwitnessoneLive-and-Murthavenflorida/118819478157047?v=wall. I am VERY interested in learning more about your action, and participating on behalf of myself and many others that have been stalked and harassed online due to our opinions.

Best of luck to you and we ALL hope that this stops because it’s EFFING up the blogosphere.

I have been stalked online myself, but nothing this bad. It was you who helped me deal with my online stalker, infact.

I cannot image going through what you are describing. I do hope that this nightmare ends for you soon.

I’m not one that likes to be involved in any controversy or conflict, but I do have one thought that invokes some questions. Do you feel in any way that you or any of your online community (Mom Dot) have displayed any improper or unacceptable behavior in regards to this situation? Such as antagonizing or goading the “stalkers” in any manner? Or even speaking of them in a very derogatory and hurtful way?

I’m not intending to cause any problems, and I do understand that stalking (no matter what type, whether cyber or otherwise) is scary, and unlawful.
I hope that this can all be resolved, and everyone can be at peace with one another, it’s sad to me that we can’t all be a part of the blogosphere and internet together, as a whole, not divided into groups. Thanks for letting me speak my heart, and I wish you nothing but the best.