I know I haven’t been around. I know I’ve been gone. But my life is crazy…
I’m getting a divorce.
I’m doing well, the girls are well and we are all excited about what life is going to bring us. No it won’t be easy and yes there have been things that I just can’t go on about but that its been coming for awhile.
Life never just makes it easy, does it?
I promise I”m coming back to start blogging to start letting off steam to let myself think freely.
Thank you to all my friends, you know who you are who’ve stood by me and loved me no matter what.
And yes Trisha, I might just ask for your toothbrush again.
~Alicia
I went through divorce 4 and a half years ago after 23 years of marriage. I have eight children, at the time one was an adult the others were 16 down to two. It was incredibly difficult as I was a loving being a stay at home mom and had home schooled 5 of them for 16 years. But even though divorcing it was up there with the top 5 most difficult things of my life I also say it was the best thing I ever did for all of us and for me. I have grown more since the divorce then in all the years in a marriage that wasn’t good for me. Today I’m starting my own business. That never would have happened within that marriage.
There is life after divorce, it’s just takes time to come out of the haze. Above all things be patient with yourself.
I went through a divorce twelve years ago and though hard with two little boys, ages one and three at the time, it was the greatest thing I could have done for all of us. I am now remarried, incredibly happy and have another little boy. Divorce is awful for a while but one day the clouds part and the sun shines down. The best advice I could give, not that you asked, is keep your sense of humor handy!
All the best to you and your girls during your transition. Sounds like you have a wonderful support team for the tough times, and a great outlook for the positive times.
I LOVE YOU MAMA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Oh, wow. I want to say I’m sorry, but I don’t know what your marriage has been like. If it’s been coming for a while, you might be totally relieved!
I know so many people who have gone on and been glorious human beings after the split. It’s not that either parties were BAD, although some were. It’s just that sometimes, you just have to move on.
You are going to be great.
HUGS!!
I know this can’t be easy for you or your girls, but you are strong and awesome and have so much to look forward to with a fresh new perspective!
Been there, too – and I’m glad I changed my life for the better. Best of luck, it’s a hard road to travel but you can do it!
@ Suzanne:
I could of wrote that exact POSt!!
HUGS
I’m sorry about this, you seem to have a positive outlook, hugs to you and your girls!!
Alicia,
I’ve been where you are. Fifteen years later, I’ve got a hubby and two boys. That divorce? Best thing that could ever happen to me.
If you need anything, I’m just a little down the road. Call me and I’ll be there.
Its great that you have such a positive attitude towards the future
We are all here for you. (((hugs)))love ya!!
I have faith that things are going to turn out well for you and the girls. ((Hugs))
Love ya, alicia! You know were to find me if you need me!
You’re amazing for doing what’s right for you and your girls. We’re all here for you.
You are a strong lady. Take care of yurself. Lean on friends. We’re here to support you!
Your attitude is what’s going to get you and girls through this. Fresh new starts can be hart, but trust me when I say..they get better every day..Good Luck with your new life.
You have a great attitude Alicia and you’re right, this is a new chapter of your life, you’ll come out of it stronger than ever.
I’m so sorry!!
When it rains it pours!!!! Im so sorry to hear that this is happening, and will be looking forward to hearing your thoughts about it!
You know we love you and are here for you whenever you need us.
MUAH!
I am so sorry to hear but i am sure what ever happens next is going to be great for you!