Ok, I am liberal.
I like to think I am liberal. Nudity doesn’t bother me, I am pro-choice, I could give a poop if someone is smoking marijuana…blah, blah. BUT when it comes to my child, I am super conservative. I am concerned about her choices, her clothing, her safety, her health and why shouldn’t I be, she is the only thing I have to actually get RIGHT in life.
A long time ago I wrote an article..well, more like an observation, on little girls wearing thongs. I had caught a glimpse of a young girl, in a Tinkerbell shirt no less, with a hot pink thong hanging out at the local park.
I took a picture of it on the playground.
Trust me, I have gotten a LOT of grief over that picture, but I think I made my point. And at least I don’t kidnap little girls in thongs, kwim?
That article gets a buttload of hits on my blog even till this day.
People who look up:
- “kids in thongs”
- “little girls in thongs”
- “pictures of 10 year olds in thongs”
- “girls in thongs under 4″
- “Want to see little girl in a thong”
No crap.
Just today alone I have had:
- Hot young girls wearing thongs
- little GIRLS THONG
- little girls in thongs
I also get many comments on that post.
Unfortunately I can’t put most of them through because they would make the general population physically ill. Stuff like “I think all little girls should wear thongs; they are HOT in them.” The sad part is the comments are probably real. My own dad thinks I should start an IP database to add anyone with those kinds of comments so the FBI can investigate them all.
I think he may be onto something.
Which brings me to why I don’t want my little girl WEARING a thong. There really are men out there that look at your little girls…in thongs. And then they go home and search them out on the internet for their jollies.
Today I got this comment and at first I was thinking..is this guy for real? I mean, for real, for real? I had to not only publish it, I had to point it out.
After reading all the comments on this site, i decided to give my own opinion, for what it’s worth. I am a single father to two girls (Ages: 7 & 9) and the pictures on this post do not surprise me in any way. Both my girls wear thongs, as do a lot of my nieces who are of a similar age. Strangly they both still act like children not Porn Stars, niether do they go around parading the fact that they are wearing thongs.
Maybe it’s just the way i was brought up but as long as something is covering their vagina’s i don’t see a problem, a thong is nothing more than underwear, it doesn’t make any person more sexy than when their not wearing them, people who think that a child wearing a thong make’s them ’sexy’ should get their head examined!
I have no problem with my girls wearing them and niether does anyone else i know, maybe because my girls don’t go round lifting up their skirts and showing everyone is why i don’t have a problem with it! My girls don’t wear PJ’s on a night, they wear a thong and cami top even when walking round the house, it doesn’t bother them so why should it bother anyone else, at least their vagina’s are covered and as far as i am concerned that what matters!
Now I have a daughter. She is nearly 5. We still take a bath and change in front of each other. However, she is growing up quickly and I figure it wont be too long before her privacy factor will kick in and she will close her door when changing. Its starting to happen now in some occasions already. Plus I am a woman (and her mother) so I figure its fair game to be more open in naked situations till she is no longer comfortable with it.
Even so, I cant even imagine at 9 years old that its appropriate for your daughter to be walking around in a THONG around the house with just a cami on. That draws the line for me.
And as a father, especially a single father who has to work even harder on the growth of a child, I cant imagine how this would ever be acceptable.
Am I the only one leaving this comment with a sense of…..hell, I don’t even know how to put it.
Disturbia?
Vomit?
~Trisha
Wow what a damn waste of time you all could be spending actually parenting your bratty and disrespectful children.
Are you all that ignorant to think that just because you say something to your children they listen? Try teaching them rather than commanding them. They are not animals and you will regret treating them like your pet rather than another human being. Stop considering how much older and wiser you are than they are and start treating them as though they actually deserve the life that you gave them without their request.
I am a lot like my parents but it is because of genetics and nature not because of things they taught me. Every lesson I learned about things that dealt with the physiological ramification of life I learned out in the world just like your stupid little kids will. Get the hell away from you computer and go play with your children and talk with them like they are intelligent ask them for their opinion and don’t be such a militant douche bag to everyone around you.
Fucking yuppie assholes and breeders are the only ones concerned with topics like this.
Rapist and molestors don’t give a fuck if you little shit head is in a thong, they care if their sickness manifests itself in your child. Do some reading and research you idiots. You could send her out in a garbage bag and sack cloth and it means nothing to a sicko child rapist/murder.
spend sometime helping them get a better education and waste less time worrying about what is covering their asses.
WELL WHO CARES THIS IS NOT THE KIDS FAULT ITS THERE PARENTS
AND ITS UNDER WEAR NO IM NOT SOME SICK OLD PERV BUT FROM A GUYS POINT OF VEIW ITS JUST UNDER WEAR ITS HARM LESS UNLESS THE CHILD MAKE WRONG CHOCIES
The picture really shocked me. i mean how old is this girl? Five ore something?
I really don’t think a girl this young age should be wearing a thong. I am 16 and i live in Europe, but i was born in the US. But here it is normal in my age to wear a thong. Not to be sexual atractive for boys ore men. Almost all of my friend wear one. Even my little sisters classmates wear one (in my opinion even 13 is too young to be wearing one). So maybe it is just our way of thinking.
I didn’t wear one until this winter. I must say i was shocked wen i saw one of my friends wear one. But if you ask her why, she would defenetly not say becouse she want’s to look sexyer. She would say becouse she feels comforteble in them and becouse they don’t draw lines under her jeans. My mom dosent’t really lieke that i wear one,but she accepted it. I told her that it is my decision to ear what i want. and i dont run a round like the biggest stripper at all. I think a shirt with a huge neckline is worst than a thong, becouse you can hide it.
I would be embarresd if anyone would know that i am wearing one, exept my mom. And I am a virgin and really want to remean one, becouse i don’t feel ready. So I don’t think that just becouse yoe are wearing one makes you sexual aktive. It is just how mature you feel and act.
Even though I would never let my doughter wear a thong, until she is at least in the same age as i am and feels comfortable in them. I know that there is a lot of pressure on young girls in the age between 13 and 16. And most of them wear thong to be cool but don’t really like them. so i would want her to decide to her self. Of courese i wouldn’t let her buy extremly sexy unterwear. It is just my opingnion.
ps: those men are dis…well they are jucky!
Wait, you are a virgin, yet you have a daughter?
i think thats awesome let her wear what she wants!! by the way thats a “G-string” honey!! haha i saved the pics i love em!! thank-you why did you ruin it by covering her face!! Lmfao laterzzz
Wow. I never knew they really existed for girls that young. This is why I told my dad to get a shotgun when my sister was born. No bullets. Just the shotgun.
OMG! This is pathetic! Thanks for the post
Thats bad that she is wearing a thong at that young of an age.
To be honest any man looking at a girl that way won’t care what kind of underwear she is wearing. True that it will cause the thought in some men beyond the real pedophiles, but not many. Any man looking that way will be just as turned on if not more so by her looking like exactly what she is, a child.
Personally I have to say that there is no set age for this. It depends on the maturity of the girl. Is she going to be careful enough not to show it off? If it is simply because she enjoys them and knows enough that people should not see them then she might be old enough.
Still I would put a minimum age of mid teens to even start allowing maturity to be a consideration. But I had a sister that my parents tried to simply tell flat out that nothing of the sort was allowed. All I have to say that at the age of 23 she is finally getting her life back on track, but it took her a lot of effort. She felt that they were being unfair when they drew the line, so she crossed it.
To be honest to me this isn’t a black and white issue. Once a person is old enough to argue for something they want beyond a simple temper tantrum you have to seriously consider the risk of denying it to them against the risk of what they don’t know about the world.
ultimately mr. anti discrimination, children are molded by adults and society. The only reason one would want to wear underwear like a thong is because they want to imitate. our society is laden with sexuality and little kids want to copy. Let a child be a child for as long as they can and have innocence for as long as they can. Children aren’t children anymore. By the time they are in 4th grade and on they are becoming obsessed with sexuality, being a grown up, and having kids. It’s just sad.
don’t most normal (ie non strippers) wear thongs to avoid panty lines? or to be sexy for their man?
do we need our kids to worry about panty lines before they are ready to?
this post is dumb. Not your post, the other side Trisha. poor little girls.
I would NEVER allow my child to wear a thong…when she grows up and earns her own cash…then its up to her…but not in MY HOUSE!!!I think that dad with 2 daughters who allows it has something seriously wrong upstairs…ugh!
Ok, reading the first paragraph, you can see the blatant hypocrisy “i am liberal and nudity is ok, but when it comes to my kids, i am super conservative.”
What the blog poster is really saying is “it’s ok for me but not for my children” Why? If you can wear a thong, so can your 5 year old daughter. If she can’t, then you can’t either.
Discrimination against most groups has finally gone away, except for discrimination against youth. The most creative blossoming group of people on the planet are given no rights, just hypocritical authority.
“she’s the only thing i have to get RIGHT in life”
What, you can’t get yourself right? No, because you’re full of all the same psychological problems as the rest of this anxiety-depressed society.. and you’re going to turn your back on your own problems and assume you’re starting fresh with your kids. -WRONG BUZZER SOUNDS-
Make YOURSELF right, and they will imitate that. If you pull the hypocritical double-standard they will imitate that instead.
Seriously, you’re not their guardian angel. You let the state-schools raise your kids and the propaganda on TV installs Cult(ure) behavior that is way worse than a dumb little thong.
I’d rather my child wear a thong and have a high vocabulary and be able to make wise choices on her own, rather than trying to make all decisions for her until some magic sun-rise morning when the earth has passed around the sun 18 times since she was born.
This society is churning out millions of feeble-minded valley-girls who are dying to become strippers at age 18 because they just want to wear a thong for once. If you hide a penis from a girl, eventually she’ll do anything ANYTHING to see & touch one – out of morbid human curiosity.
One poster said “kids should be kids as long as possible” Yeah you would love to have 35 year old kids that don’t understand what a thong is. In fact I often wonder, who is more obsessed with children’s sexuality? Is it pedophiles? Or is it you anal-retentive parents? Study your own psychology first.
I was going to respond and let you know you are clearly an ignorant and immature non-parent, because most of these statements would NEVER be repeated from a parents mouth period..but then I realized you were probably searching ABOUT little girls in thongs to get here and Ill just lump you in the “creep that enjoys little girls in thongs” category.
I think he’s right. It’s discrimination. While laying out your daughter’s thong for tomorrow, why not let her knock back a couple cold beers? Perhaps a few shots of whiskey.
Hand over a few cigarettes and give her the keys to the car. If you forbid young children from acting like grown-ups then you set our country back decades.
Anti-discrimination protection should extend to our youth. Drink on, young ones…drink on.
What a tool. Yes if I have to hide my daughter or someones penis away for 11 more years I will because its called PROTECTING my child. There is no reason for girls to wear sexy underwear. My daughter will be 7 in march and doesn’t even know what a thong is. The only thing discriminating on her is the fact she can’t decide which cartoon character she should wear because she is a CHILD.
It is funny to me that the one person whose post offered a halfway intelligent response gets dumped on. This is exactly the type of response that will only sway others to think exactly the opposite of your opinion. Insulting the opposition, stating opinion instead of fact, and using poor grammar, or spelling only works against you.
That out of the way.
I do not have a child, but if I did I would not encourage her to wear a thong.
I feel that children are looked at like they are mere animals that have no ability to think freely. Well I have news for you: even animals have the ability to think freely. If you do not want your child to wear a thong then the least you could do is give them intelligent and honest reasons why instead of just being a tyrant about it. All my life I was told “Eat your vegetables”, no one ever told me why. I hate the taste of vegetables and still can not eat them. I really regret the fact that no one told me that my endocrine system would not function properly if I did not eat them. Instead they insisted on forcing them down my throat and now I have to pay the price for it. The opposite can also hold true. I am fighting addiction to things that are wrong because no one gave me logical arguments as to why. Forbidding a child from doing something without giving them just cause is close to the same thing as teaching them to do it.
So unless you are teaching your children right from wrong and not just shoving it down their throats, you have no right to harp on those parents that allow their children to do things you think are wrong.
And before you start flaming me for being a pervert, I would just like to let you know I only recently found out that they made thongs for children and it struck my curiosity.
its ok for young girls to were a thong its up to them
thay want to do what the other girls are doing
Ah, yes, because 5-year olds are so capable of making rational decisions.
Some adults floor me with their logic.
Let’s all bow to conformity and peer pressure. You say they just want to do what other girls are doing, maybe so, but that doesn’t mean it’s right. Remember this as you’re dragging your child into rehab someday.
So I walked away and can’t stop thinking about this.
My guess is that the guy who made that comment was probably one who stumbled across your blog because he was searching
* Hot young girls wearing thongs
* little GIRLS THONG
* little girls in thongs
A girl or boy by the age of 7 and 9 should be taught to respect their own bodies by showing some modesty. I am not a prude but I think our of primary responsibilities in this day and age is to encourage some prudence so that by the reach an age where they are wanting to test the waters the decisions they make are less likely to be ones they regret later. And that father has certainly bought his partner a thong before (or looked at them in one) with the idea that it IS sexy. We all have experienced temptation and if his mind isn’t in the gutter where we all think it is, he is playing with fire regardless.
I have a question, was he a blogger? Or did he post anonymously?
blogger
The fact that young girls are bombarded with sexual innuendos at such a young age is disturbing. The fact that a single Dad sees NO PROBLEM letting his 7 and 9 year old run around at home in a thong and cami and wear thongs as a rule on a daily basis just shows how obtuse and full of male DNA he truly is.
Anyone who thinks that this is Ok is ignorant and fooling themselves into a false sense of safety. I have seen 7 year olds trying to emulate Brittney Spears. It’s disgusting. Little girls just need to be little girls for as long as possible. There is way too much “acceptable” sexual content lobbed at our children theses days. And no, I am far from a prude, I just have a problem with 12 year olds pulling daisy chains and BJ trains. They think that because it’s not intercourse, it’s not sex. But it is. And they are just babies. Far too young to understand the ramifications of a sexual relationship.
But hey, if people want to put their little girls out as a free buffet for every freak pedophile out there, more power to ya. I suggest you start saving now for her therapy fund, teen mom fund and boarding school for the incoridgeable children, along with that college fund.
My daughter will NOT be wearing a thong until she doesn’t live under my roof anymore. And I never wore anything that my parents disapproved of. Well, except for those peace symbol and anch earrings my Dad hated…
That guy is trying to excuse his horrid behavior and guilt. He knows is frickin’ wrong and he feels it everytime he sees them in a thong. He is sick and trying to justify it!
My oldest is 14 at 6 ft tall and she cant wear a thong! Boy cut or granny panties all the way for her! She knows better to even ask me. I wont even buy her pretty lacy panties. There is no reason a kid or a teenager needs to wear sexy under garments. So, I agree. No sexy panties for the kids!!
Do I think that will stop her from having sex at a young age? No, but I assume not give her any encouragment in the sexy department will help some. So far so good!
I have so many thoughts I can’t even get one straight out for a comment…It is … nothing good. These people (little girls growing into their sexuality waaaaaay too young and these parents/dads that are waaaaaay too casual about it) need our prayers.
I think it’s ironic that probably the vast majority of poeple posting here made clothing and appearance decisions that earned the disdain of their parents, as did their parents and their parents yet would probably argue nothing came of the fears that were expressed over their decisions…
I think it’s a sad satate of affairs that a father who see’s his childrens bodies is immediately expected to be some kind of sexual deviant just because his views don’t match with your own.
I ask again… would you assume a mother who let her son run around in only briefs was molesting him also?
I think not… I think double standards, paranoia and prudism are running rather thick here…
I wasnt even allowed to wear a bikini till I moved out, so not my parents.
ANd if that son was wearing a thong, that answer is yes.
Trisha
It’s bad enough that high school girls flaunt their thongs barely hidden under low rise jeans or thin skirts. This is disturbing beyond words.
thats not true at all. well, not at my school at least. if someone deliberately flaunts their thong, their reputation takes a huge downfall. im not sure about other places but here thats how things go, so please dont assume all high school girls are sluts.
as for the blog…7-9 year olds in thongs…i never knew kid thongs existed until recently. [im 15, and im actually a little bit intimidated by them. never wore one before in my life]…if i saw a little girl wearing one, i would be shocked as well, but in my opinion, as long as the girl doesnt show off her undies on purpose, it doesnt matter what she wears. its the child’s choice what she wants to wear, as long as she feels comfortable in them and its ok with her parents. most girls dont wear thongs to be sexy. they wear them because they feel comfy and/or they dont show pantylines. and maybe the occasional peer pressure. i see a lot of girls trying to act older lately. but pantylines…are embarassing! some of you might be thinking something along the lines of “who cares if someone sees your pantyline?”. thats the outline of UNDERWEAR showing through pants. im thinking of wearing a thong myself, just for track meets, because the shorts are tight fitting and show a lot of pantyline, and i plan to keep it a secret from my team (does that make me a whore?). ill stop there for my pantyline rant. i will get back on topicnow… yes, its creepy to see little girls running around with their thongs showing, but as long as they’re content, no need to get worked up about it. like i said before, if they feel comfortable, and the parents are fine with it, its not hurting anyone. just relax.