As you know we have been following the KY Intimacy Experiment this past week and today there is a FREE DOWNLOAD of the same experiment we did that you can start to put into play for your household!
First lets talk about Day #8.
Day 8 KY Intimacy Experiment
Day eight was all about the pallet.
They say a mans heart is through his stomach..in our house, everyone’s heart is through their stomach. I lurve me some food! And while there isn’t a lot of scientific back up (according to the KY Experiment booklet) of chocolate covered strawberries or oysters being true aphrodisiacs, the emotions of eating together could very well be what makes it so sexy.
Exercise one for the day is to search for your favorite recipe, go shopping for fresh ingredients together, and then sit together and eat…this is your foreplay.
Exercise two for the night was to follow up with dessert….we think maybe refer back to Day #5!
How we did:
In our house, cooking is not sexy. I dont find cleaning or cooking anything more than a chore that has to be done to keep us from going out to eat 9 times a week. Because this weekend fell on Valentines Day, Saturday night my husband took me to a 5 star restaurant in The Battle House called The Trellis Room. It was set to be super romantic and in one of the oldest hotels in the city.
The food was atrocious.
I don’t mind paying for amazing food, but no one even showed up to bring us water to our table for a full 15 minutes. You would think Valentines Day, super busy, you have to be understanding, right? Nope. There were hardly any tables filled, I guess the city figured out that the quality and service had gone down well before we did.
Our food was delivered while our salad plates were still sitting in front of us and they had to go put our food down to clear the table. My chicken was dry and pretty much the most bland dish I have ever eaten. If the meal didn’t ruin the ambiance of our date, the $100 bill at the end for being served food I wouldn’t expect my 6 year old to eat did. The sad part was I mentioned it to our waiter when he asked and his face glazed over like it was something that he had heart 100 times…that night.
We tried to salvage the night by picking up some coffee and coming home and watching Paranormal 2. But eh.
So last night on Valentines day itself my husband wanted a Caribbean Jerk chicken meal so I made that while he played with our daughter. I guess when you are married with children, this whole shopping, cooking, and being sexy together thing kinda goes out the window unless your on vacation.
We tried to do it backwards by relaxing and going out instead but that totally backfired.
Hopefully you all will have a better attempt at this. If all else fails, grab some whip cream and retire to the bedroom….that probably would have been a better idea initially.
To catch up with our past days go here:
- KY Day #7 Intimacy Challenge
- KY Day #6 Intimacy Challenge
- Ky Day #5 Intimacy Challenge
- KY Day #4 Intimacy Challenge
- KY Day #3 Intimacy Challenge
- KY Day #2 Intimacy Challenge
- KY Day #1 Intimacy Challenge
- KY Intimacy Experiment Download
- Visit KY Couples Place on Facebook
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