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You all know that I did a video for the radio co-host/dj type position at our local radio station, right? I posted it here for you all watch and then on YouTube to submit the video to the station. Then I sign on today and I have this nasty, completely pathetic comment that I honestly thought, oh lord, one of those MomDot haters found my video online. But no, a REAL non-blogger wrote it, which some how makes it more pathetic. At least the MomDot haters are just sticking to their shtick. It’s expected in a way.
However, I’m curious about this idiot and I look him up and he has left nasty comments on tons of videos of girls in the competition except for one girl and he has ‘favorited’ her video. He is a real winner calling women derogatory names online for no reason.
Now I know I have been out of college for 8 years, but I know RED FLAG when I see it. It’s either her family, friend, or an obsessed stalker fan, right? So I leave a comment on one of the girls videos he trashed and said that I like her and to not take the nasty guy to heart because he left it on everyone’s but a particular girl. I never mentioned that particular girls name or video. In fact, my comment was to support the girl being trashed because I thought it was completely immature and its nice to lend a shoulder to someone. I could have gone to the girls video I think had a part in it and told her to stop the nonsense. Its not like there is a $6000 gift card being offered. (BTW, total props to Walmart. I have used that card all the way to Texas. In a way, they half sponsored my trip to Mom2.0!)
Anyhoo, COINCIDENTALLY the girl I’m talking about happens to comment after me defending herself (keep in mind, this was NOT her video she was commenting after me, someone elses YouTube…what she just happened to find it? Sure. And I am 6 feet tall.), PICKS on being a mommy blogger (knew y’all would looooooove that) and then has the AUDACITY to email me this email below. You know for someone that doesn’t know him and I never even mentioned hername, she is awfully defensive. Enough to write me an EMAIL? I have never written an email to a random person I don’t know to talk about how awesome I am and how their life must suck:
Not that it matters to you but I am in no way related to guy4baseball but he does has the rights of freedom of speech. Truth is my Husband is shy and I would love if he would voice his opinions more, good or bad. Anyway just because someone likes me does not mean they have to know me on a personal level. I am employed unlike you and a lot of others applying. My job already is a dream job, I get to fly around and see our world all while getting paid!!! I also get to take my husband and children on dream vacations other wise we could not afford. How cool is that, I rock and fly!!!! I think you are hating. If I loose this I still have a dream job, what do you have? Mommy blogger? Don’t hate!!! But just because I am telling you the truth, I do like Rachel Pitts, the boob lady and the young girl that has the cute bangs I think her user name is dontfeedthemodels…..so whatever. That is what I like and I am entitled to think whatever I want. Also, 50,000 blogers coming in monthly to view you would add up to more than the number of views your videos have, so be honest with yourself and everyone else. Have a nice day!
Yes, ladies, a random woman I have never met emailed me this to my Youtube account…when I never once mentioned her by name or left a comment on her online video. I’m so glad she knew it was her with this guy even though she has no idea who he is. Oh, and why do people think freedom of speech = acceptable to be a complete asshole?
My favorite part? She assumes I am unemployed and I am JEALOUS of her flight attendant career. Yep, that’s me, sitting here in Texas at the convention with a Clear Channel badge around my neck very, very sad I am just a ‘mommy blogger’. How could I possibly live with myself with only my own design business, an amazing online community, and about 300 PR reps and kick-ass companies fighting for my attention monthly? Hey, random girl…….it’s ‘bloGGer’ not bloger. Maybe they don’t teach spellcheck in flight attendant school, that must be just a blogger thing. And for the record, entering this co-host contest isn’t exactly my life long dream or anything, so the whole thing is super bizarre.
I think being a Mom Blogger is pretty freaking awesome. So is being a mom. And a wife. And all the things that I am that don’t exactly fit in a box of a definition. My life wouldn’t exactly melt away if I didn’t get into this competition or hell, if MomDot faded tomorrow I guess what I would have left is…….me. And I am pretty OK with that.
~Trisha
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AJ @ A Little Bit Nutty wrote:
I don’t think it was uncalled for. If you have an opinion you should put it out there like the rest of us who are honest about our feelings and grownup enough to express them, even if they different.
That was uncalled for. Personally I think she is involved with that guy or why else would she be defending her self over nothing.
Sounds like she is a few cheerios shy of a brain. Apparently she is sooo unhappy with her own life that she doesn’t have anything better to do than to degrade someone else. Here’s to the friendly skies. *eyeroll*
ROTFL….this brings back memories of another bad experience I had. Power to mommy bloggers!
Sounds like someone is a little CRAZY! (nasty girl, NOT you)
@ Beth:
The girl was nasty and she blogged about it- real life experiences make a great real blog…if you have a problem with it be boring somewhere else.
I dunno…I’m enjoying the gossip and Trisha totally has the right. Ready for it??? IT’S HER SITE
Lisa S wrote:
Bwhahahaha This made me almost spit soda on my screen. That probably sums it up.
Trisha – 1
Grammatically Challenged Air Tramp – 0
Go Trisha!
You said it! Being a mom is AWESOME and we are not jealous of anyone’s prestigious careers. We are very happy doing our mom thing (whether we have other work or not). Oh some people are just so immature.
Alan, its just that i dont GET it. I got this email from out of the blue, from someone I have never talked to because I defended someone else from being called nasty names. Its the high road that got me THIS email.
I think people should be held accountable. The funniest part? Im a good allie to have. I looked at all the videos and thought they all had something cute or personable or whatever they were to that person. In fact, one girl left me a cute comment and said she liked my video even though she entered too. THAT is the kind of stuff I get, I understand, Im a part of and I apprieciate.
Then this? I am so annoyed/insulted that because I have a blog, I must be unemployed and she says ‘mom blogger’ like its a disease or something I settled on. I work my ass off and so do countless of women and businesses every day. This IS a job, with real companies and real PR and real ads, and real women.
I just honestly cannot believe someone would email a random stranger this crap out.
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Take the high road. You have a top notch supportive community here. Negativity is contagious, don’t catch her cold! From one of the 300 people fighting for your attention. Go girl.
I retract my previous comment on one of those Alabama posts…Alabama doesn’t scare me anymore…that chick does! As soon as she started singing my husband told me to shut the volume off.
So, she got nasty comments a day ago and you’re the hater? Riiiiight.
Oh Trish, I’ve got such thick skin.. I just don’t know how you deal with all the haters (blog and nonblog).
You keep on keepin’ on, girl!!! WE love you!
Beth wrote:
Damn right i want my readers to see it. I hide nothing from them and maybe she should think more carefully before writing a stranger out of the blue to be nasty to them. And for the record, she also was nasty in a public way in comments on Youtube, so its not like she is hiding it. Its not a blogger, so I dont owe her anything….even if she was, this email was unacceptable period. The beauty of a blog is that I share my life, I can put it up here and people can be a part of what I have to go through. Im a blogger that lays it on the line. I have always put it out there and I think my readers just want me to be……well, me! I put up almost any email that I get that I am dealing with….I think its part of what keeps our site honest on who we are.
Btw, why did you not put your blog in your name? its Nutzy.wordpress.com right?
Well all I can say is shame shame on you for putting her on this site. Why all the gossip? That’s not what you want your readers to think about now is it.
Ok, wow….her grammar sucks, not that mine is something special, but wow! Her video is dumb. Sorry you are dealing with this.
I always find it amusing when someone is trying to sound intelligent, but has horrible grammar and spelling.
I wonder if her husband knows she is sleeping with guy4baseball?
i think nasty girl has a bit of a self esteem issue. she also has the most atrocious spelling. wth?? if you’re going to comment on someone’s videos/blogs/whatev at least be able to spell. hey nasty girl-it’s LOSE not loose. haha you got her on the spelling of blogger…you go trisha!